http://timeremains.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/chapter-6-the-love-stories/ Time moves on. Time moves us on. Time moves us forward. Sun, 01 Nov 2009 13:19:09 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://timeremains.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/chapter-6-the-love-stories/#comment-291 bojinx Wed, 19 Nov 2008 06:19:33 +0000 http://timeremains.wordpress.com/?p=296#comment-291 thank-you Lotta :) It wasn't easy at the time. It was hard. But I am very grateful for the lesson. Because, hopefully, I will never need to be taught it again!!! thank-you Lotta It wasn’t easy at the time. It was hard. But I am very grateful for the lesson. Because, hopefully, I will never need to be taught it again!!!

]]> http://timeremains.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/chapter-6-the-love-stories/#comment-287 lottakullman Tue, 18 Nov 2008 10:41:08 +0000 http://timeremains.wordpress.com/?p=296#comment-287 Thank you for sharing all this.. and it makes me very happy to hear that you have been able to take that step away from all of it to see more clearly. To be able to realize that YOU need time and that the most important person to give your attention to is, in fact, you.. You can not feed and nourish a relationship without trust and without a strong base to stand on the relationship will wiggle and sooner or later stumble upon itself - and fall. It´s a very big step to take to actually let yourself be the one that asks for help, for a shoulder and for advise and you are very lucky to have souls around you which will supply this for you! "It was time for me. Time for me to find me and to love me. To accept me for who I am and to allow myself to be me. To stop trying so hard to help people. Time to have my say and step away. Time to not take everything so personally. Time to find my balance. Time to say goodbye. All the energy I had been using to focus on my relationships, friends, family, etc. It was time I called it back. It was time for others to be there for me. For me to, not just accept, but ask for, Help." - Wonderful insight! Thank you for sharing all this.. and it makes me very happy to hear that you have been able to take that step away from all of it to see more clearly. To be able to realize that YOU need time and that the most important person to give your attention to is, in fact, you..
You can not feed and nourish a relationship without trust and without a strong base to stand on the relationship will wiggle and sooner or later stumble upon itself – and fall.
It´s a very big step to take to actually let yourself be the one that asks for help, for a shoulder and for advise and you are very lucky to have souls around you which will supply this for you!
“It was time for me. Time for me to find me and to love me. To accept me for who I am and to allow myself to be me. To stop trying so hard to help people. Time to have my say and step away. Time to not take everything so personally. Time to find my balance. Time to say goodbye. All the energy I had been using to focus on my relationships, friends, family, etc. It was time I called it back. It was time for others to be there for me. For me to, not just accept, but ask for, Help.” – Wonderful insight!

]]>